Regrets

Have you ever ponder on what could have been if you chose a different option or walked a different path? Even if it seems pointless to think about it, we sometimes can't help but think of the possible events that might or might not change our present state. A student may say to himself, " I should have reviewed.." after flunking an exam, or " If I have only chosen a man with a decent job, I wouldn't be living the rest of my life as a dishwasher," an unhappy wife tells her friend. No matter how small or life changing it might have been, we all have bits and pieces of our past that we want to relive again. But the thing with these wishful thinking is that we know it can never be brought back again. Unless we have a time machine of course :) That is why TODAY is so precious. Which of the things in life should we value more in order to optimize our today's existence? I believe that to each is his own. But I will let ERMA BOMBECK answer this for me.

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
by Erma Bombeck
(Written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn! With my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's"; more "I'm sorry's."
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it... Live it and never give it back.

STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!
Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what.
Instead; let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.
Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with, and what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, and emotionally.
I hope that you have a great day.